If you’re seriously reading this it’s either because you’re bored or you really do have a horrible gym partner. To begin with, if your gym partner really does suck and you’ve always known this, shame on you for not finding a good one. If you think you’re currently suffering from Shitty Gym Partner Syndrome this will give you the possible symptoms of this common but very easily treated disease. If you don’t have a gym partner congrats for being a badass, and if you’ve thought about finding one this will help you to find the right gym partner in no time- hopefully.
“Just Shut Up”
Left headphone in, right headphone, two reps in, and they start talking about that crazy party you missed. Look, it’s one thing to chat while you’re both resting or walking to the next machine, but if you find yourself constantly having to pull out your headphones and hear what they have to say, you’re workout is only suffering. You’re at the gym to feel and look good, not to socialize. Go kick some ass at the gym and don’t waste your time.
“I’m Tired Man, Let’s Leave”
30 minutes in and your gym buddy already wants to call it a day. If you’re seriously trying to get a good workout don’t let your gym partner get in the way of that. If you depend on them for a ride you should find another way to get there so you can leave the gym feeling satisfied. You shouldn’t be walking out of the gym knowing you didn’t fully commit or do enough. Next time your gym partner wants to leave after 2 workouts tell ’em you’re staying. In the end you’re the one that’s gonna see results, not them.
“Let’s Just Do What We Always Do”
I don’t know about you but I’m always on the lookout for new workouts. Whether it’s observing what people are doing at the gym or looking an exercise up I’m always looking for new ways to hit muscle groups. Changing up your workout routine is a crucial step if you are serious about seeing results. Studies show that muscles take between 6-8 weeks in adapting to workout routines, so if you’re not switching it up you’re wasting your time! If you wanna try lunges this week instead of squatting don’t let your partner get in the way of that. Remember you’re paying for the gym membership, it’s your body, and it’s your results.
“I Just Don’t Feel Like Going Today Bro”
DEDICATION. If you’re not dedicated you won’t ever see the results you want. You wanna be fit? You want those abs? You can’t let your shitty gym partner get in the way of that. Don’t let them talk you out of hitting the gym! I think this has to be one of the worst gym partners you can have because rather than at least having a shitty workout you’re gonna end up staying home, eating, and regret skipping chest day. You don’t need a gym partner, and who cares if they don’t wanna go. Let them stay home and watch Netflix while you lift some heavy ass weights at the gym.
“You’re So Weak Man, You Can’t Lift That”
Like I said in my post 3 Reasons Why You Stopped Hitting The Gym, without motivation working out is not very fun. In order for us to be working out everyday we have to find a source of motivation. The sad thing is you might already have the motivation necessary, it’s just your partner who’s ruining it for you. We do things with other people for a source of motivation and so we don’t get bored, not for them to bring us down. If your gym partner doesn’t challenge or motivate you it’s time to find a new one. Real gym partners push you to do your best, they challenge you to put on those extra 10 pounds, and even though you hate it, they make you do two more reps. A good partner won’t be scrolling through their Instagram feed, they’re gonna be right behind you forcing you to do that last rep.
If you’ve just realized your gym partner sucks, I’m sorry but I had to tell you. Sometimes these people can be our best friends or even family members and I understand you don’t wanna just ditch them, but if you’re serious about fitness you gotta do what you gotta do. Who knows, maybe telling them they make a horrible gym partner may cause them to change their ways. But regardless of what they think, it’s more important that you don’t waste your time at the gym and have a kickass workout everyday. Don’t let anyone get in the way of your fitness goals, if you want something go and get it, there are no excuses. You have a shitty gym partner? Let them know and see if they change, or else find a new one.
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